When your child is facing surgery, deciding when to introduce information about the surgical experience should be based on your child's age and level of maturity.  A general rule of  thumb is to begin home preparation of a two year old, two days before surgery; a three year old, three days before and so on.  However, if your child attends the Pre-Operative Tour, it may be necessary for them to attend several days before their surgery date.  Nevertheless, home preparation is essential.    

How to Start Preparing Your Child for Surgery

Attend the Pre-Operative Tour
The tour will help familiarize you and your child with the hospital.  The Pre-Operative Tour is designed for children age 3 - 12 years old and their parents and siblings, and gives you hands-on experience.

To register for the tour please call (309) 655-5753.  The cost is free.

Preparation at Home
There are many ways in which parents can assist in the process of preparing a child for upcoming surgery.  Depending on the child's age, maturity, and development, some activities may need to be modified in order to be more effective.  The following may help you with this process.

Helpful Hints:

• Provide simple explanations of what surgery will correct.
• Explain where on the body the operation will take place.
• Answer your child's questions honestly and age appropriately.
• Encourage your child to bring his/her favorite object (stuffed animal, blanket, etc..).
• Explain to your child that he/she will be asleep during surgery because of a special sleep medicine.
• Let, your child know it's okay to talk about his/her feelings.  "It's okay to be scared."
• Read books to your child about hospitalization.
• Give your child a role:  "Your job is to eat popsicles after your surgery."
• Give your child something to look forward to after his/her surgical experience, such as playing a favorite game together or watching a movie.
• Encourage your child to ask questions and express his/her feelings to medical staff. 

Avoid Doing the Following:

• Do not make promises you may not be able to keep.  Children depend on your words.
• Do not bribe your child.  Your love and support are especially important.
• Avoid saying: "Put you to sleep" (like the pet was put to sleep).
• Suggestion: "The sleep doctor will give you a special sleep medicine that will help you go into a deep sleep."
• Avoid saying: "Cut, slice, and make a hole."
• Suggestion: "The doctor will make a small opening (as small as...)."
• Avoid saying: "Gas" (like gasoline?).
• Suggestion: "A special medicine that will help you sleep."